Wednesday, March 13, 2013

What is your perfect day from start to finish?



My perfect day would begin by waking up naturally to the sun on a warm summer day after having slept all night long without kids waking up.  I would then want a few minutes of lying in our bed with Sophie climbing up next to me to cuddle with B and Molly next to us all happy and ready to face THE BEST DAY EVER. 
We would then get ready at lightning speed…girls cooperating and all…because it would be time to go garage selling.  After a quick stop at RB’s to pick up our soda (mine would be Coke that is healthy…this is my perfect day don’t knock it) and box of donuts to throw at joggers (don’t ask) we would be on the road with Grandma, Grandpa and Becki and the girls in tow.  We would begin our route and find a plethora of garage sales to stop at and would you believe they all have baby clothes for B and loads of antiques, furniture and house stuff (preferably Pottery barn) for the rest of us at rock bottom prices. 

After exhausting ourselves with garage sales we would go back to unload our goodies and be joined by Becki’s whole family for a great lunch at El Matador (the best shredded lettuce Mexican in town).  Oh we would laugh and tell stories and jokes and still marvel at what good finds we have (all the while I would know it was because we were living my perfect day). 

We then would head to our favorite nurseries to wander the plant isles and see what new plants we haven’t discovered or just smell that smell you can only get at a nursery.  We would make our purchases excited about the prospects before us and the transformation they are going to make in our yards.

Our girls would naturally be tired at this point (not screaming tantrum tired but yawning I can’t wait to sleep quiet kind of tired).  We would take them home for a nap to which they both would take willingly and quickly.  B and I would then wander with our purchases in the yard deciding where would be their new home.  After digging in the dirt and feeling the sun on our backs we would retreat to our lounge chairs in the shade and relax dozing off for a few precious minutes of peace. 

Waking up to our girls giggles (not screeches…stay with me again my day not yours) we would play in the yard and the girls would put on their swimsuits and splash in their pool and slide down their slide.  We would wrestle in the grass and laugh as I chased them with their chubby little legs running to get away. 
We would go on a walk with the girls around the neighborhood to visit the widow’s gardens and stop to watch the creek with Libby running by our side.  We would talk about our dreams and plan our week…all around we wouldn’t be burdened by stress. 

B and I would then leave the girls with our best babysitter, Alli and team, and head out to dinner at Texas Roadhouse with family and friends.  Magically the restaurant would be a lot quieter than normal so we could hear each other talk and still have their great food.  Then it’s off to the movies.  In my perfect day B loves the movies as much as I do and is just as excited as I am.  We head into the theatre with our huge popcorn and magically healthy Coke and settle into our seats for the best movie ever.

After the movie we say our goodbyes and head home to our sleeping girls.  We collapse into bed as we end our perfect day but start our perfect night…but that is just for B and I. 

Sophie...please go to sleep!



I feel like I haven’t written my life for awhile so let me catch you up on what I think is mundane but may look back on one day and cherish…

A sneak peek of just moving in our furniture to the Master Bedroom...
The past two weeks have been a blur.  It seems we have been working non-stop painting, cleaning, taping and sanding to get Oak Hollow ready for us to move in.  We have made a lot of progress…photos to come…but still have a ways to go.  We did move our beds over this past weekend and are officially sleeping at Oak Hollow.  I say sleeping because I still have to wake up and drive over to our old house to get ready everyday as we haven’t built out my closet or had time to pack up even my toothbrush.  Since moving over, our lives seem to have gone into overdrive with plenty of Bishopric or other things keeping us away from finishing what we started or maybe we are just exhausted from working so hard our minds and bodies need a little break…either way we need to get back on track. 

Part of what is taking up a lot of what used to be time to work is Sophie.  We decided it was time to transition her into a big girl bed…which in theory sounds great and she says she is excited to do but in reality, well, let’s just say in reality I could leave her in a crib until her wedding night and let her husband transition her  if this doesn’t improve.  We are trying to be patient as either B or myself is having to lay by her bed for 1 to 2 hours until she is soundly asleep and snoring before we can sneak out of the room.  Add to that the time switch with daylight savings and the new house and we have the perfect storm brewing for parenting 101 what not to do.  She will probably be in years of therapy over this but we are trying our best.  I think we are making progress as she woke up last night and I reasoned with her until she agreed to stay in her bed while I went to mine and she did…score one for us parents.  However, B called me today saying she refuses to take her nap anyplace other than her big girl bed but won’t stay in it to sleep…erase that score I think we all know who wins in this one and it isn’t the exhausted parent. 

Last night in Bishopric we released B from her callings as they prepare for us to move and it is only a matter of time until I’m sure I get a call from the Stake President to meet about releasing me as well.  This breaks my heart and last night as I left Bishopric I drove over to our old house to take trash cans back in and drove through the ward and my heart swelled with the love I have gained for these people.  It is a unique thing to be in a Bishopric and to be invited and welcomed into people’s homes because of your calling and to be able to visit with them and get to know them on a personal level.  I have loved that part of my calling and told B I want to figure out how I can still do visits in the new ward without it being weird to people to have us stop by and chat with strangers.  I’m sure some brownies or bread can warm people up to the idea of inviting us in right?  I have had a prevailing sadness hanging over me this week and I told B I don’t know if it is saying goodbye to the Ward, the Bishopric, not enjoying my work and getting turned down at jobs I interview for, saying goodbye to a house and yard I have made my own and built so many memories at or, as is probably the case, a combination of the lot of them. 

I am very blessed to have a wife who is in tune with the Spirit and strives to bring it into our home.  B was in charge of Family Home Evening this week and gave a wonderful lesson on the story of Christ walking on water during the storm and Peter walking out to meet him.  She said that she has felt that we are in a state of transition and a sort of storm of our own but if we learn to rely on the Lord and have faith in him we can do all things and get through any storm.  This my all time favorite story from the New Testament and I have learned so much about it through the years.  I reflected with B that I can learn a lot from Peter.  Peter had the faith to not only do something he had never thought possible but trusted that the Lord wouldn’t bid him to come if there wasn’t a way but when Peter faltered and started to sink instead of berating himself or getting angry at the Lord he immediately turned to the Savior for rescue…again what faith he showed in the Lord.  So often I turn my back to the Lord or tear myself apart for not being good enough yet if I remember Peter and this lesson I will always know where my peace, indeed all of our peace, is found in the Lord and his path.   B then presented me with a gift…my favorite painting of Christ because of this story and the lessons it shows.  She said she wants it hung in our house so that when we see it every day we will know to whom we turn for peace and that He will see us through any storm we may face.  I couldn’t have been more touched by her thoughtfulness and her love for me.  How blessed I am in my life to share it by her side.


Well, for not having much to say I feel like I have written a lot.  I know who I am as a son of my Heavenly Father who is loved, protected and guided by the Holy Spirit to which I am eternally grateful.  I know the Lord is aware of me and is guiding me through canyons and raging storms so that I may climb my mountains because as I recently read the Lord doesn’t give us mountains to climb so we can be seen by the world but rather that through climbing them we can better see.  I’m not asking for more mountains to climb but how thankful I am to know he is my guide.

Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Sick Little Sophie

Sophie sleeping on the couch while sick...notice the towel to catch throw-up...no fun!

Cleaning Oak Hollow with my girls...such big helpers!

I wish I could say she was reading a book but the iPad has been a great distraction as we try and finish up work on Oak Hollow.  She picked out her own outfit leg warmers and all.
Not much to report this week as we have had a sick little girl that basically has consumed our time this past couple of weeks...There is nothing worse then watching you children suffer and look to you to fix it and there is nothing you can do.